Improving your self esteem

A low self esteem can ruin your life. If you have a low self esteem, you need to take steps to improve it. Small changes in how you see yourself can make huge changes in how you live your life.

Improvement in your self-esteem begins with you believing that you can do something about it. You need to recognize which aspects in your life are causing you to have a low self-esteem and to take steps to have victory over these feelings.

We are winners not losers.

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Many people I speak to compare their worst achievements with those of other people’s best achievements. Don’t do it, you will always look bad.
Stop believing that you cannot achieve anything. If you believe you can’t, then you can’t. You are the only person that stands between what you can and cannot achieve.

Isolate the aspects that are causing the low self-esteem and take positive steps to improve the situation. If you think people don’t like you, go out and make the first move to build a new friendship. This can be a frightening experience in itself, but the rewards are worth it.
Determine not to let setbacks drag you down into the gloom.
Failures are a part of life and we need to deal with them. Learn from your failures but don’t become, or see yourself as a failure.

Start to develop a high self-esteem.
Every day tell yourself that you are better than you think

Begin your process of self-esteem improvement. Change your thinking and belief in yourself. See yourself as a winner. Focus on your successes. Associate with people that see you as a winner. Set goals that you can achieve quite easily to begin with.
Experience what success feels like.

A high self-esteem changes your life. You are able to give to others instead of crying for help.

It all starts with you and the way you see yourself.
Look at yourself and see potential, lots of potential.

Eddie Scotten